One of the most valuable gifts I was given years ago by my mentors was an understanding of holistic life design and values-based decision making.
I want to make sure that everyone has access to this knowledge.... so if this is you, read on.
... how many choices you need to make in a day?
... what to do with you life next?
... or feeling trapped in a spiral of scarcity and fear about the future?
I've been using a holistic life design process for nearly a decade and after 6 years of working on my own framework with clients, 1-on-1 and in small teams, I wanted to share my quickest, easiest guide to getting a handle on the overwhelm and finding direction in the mess.
I designed this workbook based on my in-depth processes which can take anywhere from 6 weeks to 4 months to go through with clients. By distilling it down to the core concepts and necessities, I created this workbook so that it could be tackled inside of a day -- probably just an afternoon if you wanted! Because the plan you never start can't help you -- but just getting started on a plan of any kind can create the momentum for huge change.
And to be 100% honest, my "burning why" is because I realized one day that for most of my adult life, I'd been making decisions from places of fear and scarcity.
. . . Fear of becoming homeless if my relationship fell apart.
. . . Fear of going hungry if I didn't work day and night.
. . . Fear of being judged as a failure if I didn't use my degree.
. . . Fear of being judged for being an entrepreneur.
. . . Fear of being judged for finding a job when my business failed.
So much fear that after decades of living on my own since I was 16 years old, I was exhausted, burned out, and living a life that had been designed to suit others' needs but rarely my own.
Here's the thing: when we don't take steps to be conscious about the decisions we make in our own lives, the effects ripple out to those around us.
I didn't fully get this until my daughter was born. Suddenly, I had to come face to face with a very deep understanding that what kids see, they model.
If I didn't take the responsibility for creating my own story, finding my own peace and my own version of happiness, thriving, and abundance... she could easily grow up carrying the same patterns as I grew up with.
👉 Letting others call the shots.
👉 Feeling pressured into decisions.
👉 Believing that her intuitive "no" was just "fear of the unknown".
👉 And so much more.
I want others to know how important it is to begin working towards our own, individual futures and our desired future selves -- not the ideals that others have for us, or that we think will make us most palatable to those around us.
I hope this resource helps you, too, take one determined step towards a future that YOU envision for yourself.
Hey, I know it's not easy to take the time...
But believe me. I did, and it's worth every moment.
Yes, you can keep going as you've been going.
Yes, you can keep going along to get along.
And for sure, yes, absolutely -- you can keep on doing what you've always done, getting what you've always gotten.
Or you can do something different.