You’ve heard “hurt people hurt people,” but have you ever considered that healing people hurt people, too? Growth often means making tough choices—choices that, despite our best intentions, may hurt those we love. That doesn’t make us the villain, and it doesn’t make them the enemy. Healing isn’t about avoiding harm at all costs; it’s about moving forward with kindness, accountability, and self-respect. We can acknowledge the pain we’ve caused, give space where needed, and still stand firm in our growth. Because a life spent avoiding discomfort isn’t living—it’s just surviving.